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The Hidden Costs of Fear and How to Get a Better Deal

Talkat LambdaConf 2017 · 2017-05-25..05-27· [soft-skills]
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Claim: fear skewers choices by imagining worst-case outcomes and inflating opportunity cost, so people skip growth. Offers concrete tools: reframe opportunity cost as what we give up when we get something else, measure decisions against mortality, and expose the ego as a protector of image. Gives examples and outcomes: public speaking fear tops lists, recovery from alcoholism, a professional boxing debut, finishing a physics degree, published books, and rekindled relationship, all achieved by taking calculated social and career risks.

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  1. 0:00Introduction
  2. 3:02Fear’s hidden costs
  3. 10:30How fear shapes decisions
  4. 14:45Ego and self-sabotage
  5. 18:16Overcoming fear story
  6. 21:48Truth about mortality
  7. 25:20Taking risks
  8. 26:46Embrace challenges
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