Dating Patterns
summary
Maps software design patterns onto dating with concrete patterns and tactics: Cary Grant helper (hold doors, pull chairs, give uncommon compliments), fifth position break (learn to dance and dance with many women to spark curiosity), surprise statefulness (store personal details >3 weeks and follow up with relevant gifts or tickets). Also: lend an umbrella or chocolate (unexpected resource god), use friends as bridge interpreters. Trade-offs: high time/money cost, risk of friend‑zone or being exposed if interests are faked.
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chapters (11)
- 0:00Introduction
- 1:25Cary Grant helper
- 7:47Fifth Position Breas
- 9:53Surprise Stefulness
- 11:17Surprise Statefulness
- 13:37Interested Listener
- 15:59Unexpected Resource God
- 18:14Decorated Visitor Honeypot
- 23:22Bridge Interpreters
- 24:57Plus Protocol
- 28:42General advice
